This post is for folks out there whose goals are to come to Thailand to get laid as much as possible. If that is what you're after, here are abit of advises, which will be really useful to you when you are out there on your own among all the sharks. The rules of thumbs are simple. All bar girls are not innicent ;so paying more than what it should be is not going to do you any good. How much does it cost for a girl depends upon where you get the girls. If you get the girls from the bars, there is usually a bar fee involved usually from 300-500 baht depending upon the bar. There are many bars on Soi Cowboy, and Patpong that come with a room for a short time business. The lenght of the business can be separated to short term one, and the long term one. Short term is around one and a half hours and is limited to one business round, whereas the long term is referred to the whole night session, and unlimited business round. The short session can ranged from 600-1000 Baht, while the long term one can cost you from 1500-2000 baht. Again, there is no garantee fixed price, but make sure that you make it clear before bringing her out of the bar. The girls will try to insist you on buying her drinks because she would also get a commision from it. You do not need to buy the drinks since you already pay a bar fine to take the girl out. But if you want to please her a little bit, it's totally up to you. Both short and long term girls will go with you to your hotel. Some hotels will not let these bar girls in; make sure that you check with the hotel staffs first. However most hotels around Sukhumvit do accept them but will take their ID just in case that you are being scammed or she stole something from you. Never pay anything up front. You can pay half when she is in the room with you, and another half when the business is complete. If you plan to stick around Bangkok area for couple of days, it is wise to give her the taxi fee , and a 10% tip when she leaves the room to go back to the bar. If not, you just pay just the taxi fee, and it should be fine. Never give your contact phone number especially in your hometown to the bar girls ever! She will for sure call you in the middle of the night, or even an email. Remeber no drama here! It's a pure business. Some common scams are when they know that you are into them, they call or email you, and tell you that their family are in a blink of losing the house, or they need money to get out of being prostitude. The sad thing is that 99% of it are not true, and if you send money to her. She will make sure to do it again and again, and you will become a loser!
Apart from all these fun things you folks have been imagining for years back in the states, the most important of all is your own safety. Many scams have been reported, and doing a business with an underage girls are extremely illegal. In Thailand, prostitude is illegal no matter what, but in practice, it is common thing in the society. But, if you are falling into a scam which have polices involved, you might end up going to jail for a long time. So, make sure the girls you are talking to is over 18. And no matter what they are who they are, you should not fall in love with them what so ever. I heard many sad sad story from many long stay foreigners who has a romantic relationship with a bar girl. It didn't do them any good, and many Thais tie to their family; so if you marry to a lady, you will be responsible for her family's well being as well. So, stick to your objective, and leave Thailand with happiness. For more information, you can ask through the comments, and I 'll be sure to answer your question or guide you to where to find one.
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